The Queering the Church conference really had an impact on me. Queer theology is political theology. Making a stand for all people challenges culture. There are a few highlights that I found valuable.
First was notion that church happens only in bodies, and church happens when God is active on earth changes notions of what church is. Church is not buildings. Church is not institutions. Church is people. People are sacred for being people. The imago dei matters. Original blessing matters. Welcoming people as they are and loving them as they are allows for community wholeness. Methodist slogans claiming open hearts, open minds, open doors are hollow if those three close when you are openly queer.
Gender, race, and sex are an economy. Systemically they are valued with price and systemically we divide to cut people away from community. We set up binaries and paradoxical both/ands. The church saves, and it justified slavery. Liberation theologians speak of freedom for black or latin men, and are silent about the abuse of women in black and latin circles. Liberal theologians speak of the righteous as the anonymous Christian and ignore the real economic conditions their societies create of dehumanization and objectification of disempowered groups.
Liberal white males speak of unpacking their privilege and don't act on making the world a more just and equitable place.
Before the conference last week, I thought the polyamory issue was only floating in UU circles. The Metropolitan Community Church also deals with the question. Rev. Dr. Bob Goss suggested as a form of real politic to offer blessings of union until society is ready to take up the issue as a whole.